Stop Bugging Me

You know how it is. You've been telling a loved one to take out the garbage, fix the door, get their homework done or whatever. When I do that I feel like a nag. I don't like that feeling. Yes I wished my loved ones would respond immediately to my request, but that just isn't realistic. My requests and priorities may not be their priorities or maybe it just slips their mind. I need to find a way to let this stuff go and also to be intentional about not nagging.

Revisiting Touch

On February 21st of this year, I wrote about how powerful touch was between my dad and I. He has lost most of his hearing and he gets very frustrated not being able to hear us. I held his hand and rubbed his arm and I know he was as touched by this as I was. I've thought about that time with my dad a lot over the last month.

When I started dating my husband, the first thing I had to get used to was how his family loved to give hugs. This was very different from my family, but I found I loved it. I've also found that during this time of not feeling well because of the post concussion symptoms that hugs have been something I crave. It has brought me calmness and comfort.

I will be intentional with hugging my family and friends.

No Day Like Today

Yesterday my husband and I celebrated our friends 56th birthday. He finished treatment 6 months ago for esophageal cancer and is clean. He says it is a miracle to be with us. A few years back he had colon cancer. He and his family were upbeat and talked about how appreciative they were to all of us for being there for all of them. They spoke about how grateful they are for the return of his health. This man is one of those people that is thoughtful, generous, brillant and always there for the rest of us. We are appreciative that you are healthy and that you can remain so positive. I am blessed to have your friendship.

I will be wake up tomorrow and count my blessings and give thanks for the opportunity to enjoy another glorious day.

What Else Makes Me Happy?

I was shopping in Barnes and Noble last weekend and there was a display of Happiness books. There were 23 different titles! Are there so many of us out there that want to figure out how to have a happier life? Earlier in the week I wrote a list of what makes me happy. Now I am going to come up with a list of new untested ideas that I think will make me happy. I may even act on 1 or 2 of them.

What's Up Doc

I just came back from many hours in the ER. I had a basketball hit me on the side of my head last week which caused me to have a concussion. Good news is that all the bad stuff has been ruled out: fracture, bleeding and stroke. What can I take away from this experience? The x-ray room was off a long and busy corridor. I was able to people watch, while sitting in a wheelchair, during the ½ hour I was waiting for my turn at the CAT Scan. Lots of people, hospital employees on their way home, are uncomfortable and would not make eye contact with me. Maybe they were being respectful, but I smiled at everyone that walked past me and I even got 1 or 2 smiles back. The CAT Scan technician said I had an incredible smile during the whole process and that whatever I was doing in my life, I should keep on doing. Thanks, I appreciate the compliment.

I also learned that my husband and I could stay positive during the whole experience. We went into this knowing we would be in the ER for several hours and made the best of our time. They gave us a comfortable room to wait in and we had all nice people helping me. Even though it was a long, tiring day, I met many kind people and got to hang out and talk to my husband for several hours.

My lesson is to remember that life is good and to make the most of every moment I have with my loved ones. Also, pleasantness and a sunny disposition is contagious and a lot more fun. Lastly, there are a lot of people who are really good in their careers and I need to thank them and compliment them profusely.

Grateful Speech

Since I started down this path of living a life of gratitude, I've heard many people speak about how grateful they are and how appreciative they are. Am I the only person around that wasn't using this beautiful gratitude language? Tomorrow I will listen to people for grateful speech. I hope to be pleasantly surprised with how many times I hear this speech come from a variety of people. This will also help me practice intentional listening.

I'm Amazing

Every time I pass a mirror, smile and remind myself that I am amazing.